reading people's assumptions about me *sPicY*

  • Published: 03 February 2019
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    In this chatty vid, I cave and hop on the ‘reading your assumptions about me’ trend, aka youtubers willingly getting lowkey bullied for 15 min straight. I answer your assumptions from Instagram and AskFM about my sexuality, whether my family is rich, my personality in real life, my relationship with my boyfriend, eating disorders, sugar daddies, and a startling number of cinnamon toast related inquiries.

    not sure who created this vid format but i was inspired by the lovely avery ovard! ➭

    ON ME
    t-shirt: urban outfitters (
    shorts: brandy melville (
    star choker: en route (
    lipstick: buxom plumpline in hush hush (

    F A Q
    what’s your name? ashley
    what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
    how old are you? 20 (born in 1998)
    how tall are you? 5'5"
    what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
    what equipment do you use to film?
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    ➭ vlog camera:
    ➭ voiceover mic:
    ➭ on camera mic:
    ➭ editing: final cut pro

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Comments • 4 030

  • Dan Gets Jealous Easy So I'm #2 Phil Trash

    im struggling with an ED and i started crying so hard when you started talking about it

    • DC Sandra
      DC Sandra  9 hours back

      finally knowing a woman who dont like babies like me ha😂

      • Iris
        Iris  1 days back

        ok honestly I don’t notice your lisp? Like even after you mentioned it I was like whaaaaatttt? I still don’t notice anything lmao

        • Julianna Otusajo
          Julianna Otusajo  1 days back

          3 jobs??? Damn girl did u have time to breath? 😭

          • war er din farms nam jorje

            Thank you for this video, I dont really have words you just talked smartly about everything important.

            • Cassandra Osborne
              Cassandra Osborne  2 days back

              I can totally relate to the thing about your sister, although mine is addicted to drugs.

              • Anime Gaming
                Anime Gaming  2 days back

                “Babies don’t have any....real...thoughts”
                Baby when it finally had it first thought: WAIT WHAT IN THE FU—

                • Jocelyn
                  Jocelyn  2 days back

                  ur a queen

                  • Delilah Peterman
                    Delilah Peterman  2 days back

                    4:14 that is so true, i hardly even look through comment sections anymore because everyone is so angry about nothing and i don't understand

                    • Apeksha Saparia
                      Apeksha Saparia  3 days back

                      Babies are sack of germs.

                      • angie
                        angie  3 days back

                        when your voice starting cracking when you were talking about your sister, i stared tearing up. you said you haven't been a very good sister but i hope you'll find time if you're able to and talk to her/catch up/chat because you never know when your loved ones will be gone so cherish every moment with her. that sister bond is forever and i can guarantee that if she was gone tomorrow, you would regret some things you did or even never did.

                        • Riley Kittrell
                          Riley Kittrell  3 days back

                          Dude, you remind me so much of my mom! She left home when she was 16 to go to the Mississippi School of Math and Science the first year it was open in the 80s. She left because her mom wouldn’t let her do anything unless she was out on a date and her dad was a raging alcoholic. She left home with a paper sack of clothes she bought with her own money, met my dad in high school, payed both his and her way through college, told him she wouldn’t marry him until she felt financially stable, then waited 8 years to have kids! I was her first kid, she had me at 32, and now she has four including me. The youngest is 9. She just has herself completely together, and she understands the world in a way I never will be able to. She’s so independent and I think the only way for me to not depend on her would be to do the same thing, but she’s just so awesome. Also, her name is Ashley too soooo....

                          • Marina Cake
                            Marina Cake  3 days back

                            I don’t have a maternal gene either! I just don’t know what to do with kids. Some girls are born with built in instructions for that in their brain. I’m not one of them for sure.

                            • Manolya Y
                              Manolya Y  3 days back

                              12:48 who doesn't tho 😂😂

                              • Manolya Y
                                Manolya Y  3 days back

                                11:30 it literally felt like this was written for me

                                • Manolya Y
                                  Manolya Y  3 days back

                                  9:10 oh my god 😢 I can't stand seeing you cry, it broke my heart 💔

                                  • Jena Vincent
                                    Jena Vincent  4 days back

                                    I would hang out with you.

                                    • Riti Aggarwal
                                      Riti Aggarwal  4 days back

                                      10:26 and this is why now that they’ve broken up, the endless stream or crying emojis on her insta and going back to old pics and commenting things like “OMG THEY WERE SO CUTE” is dumb bs. were you here for her or were you here for David? She’s amazing, and a funny YouTuber, and David was definitely an asset, and amazing to her, but literally stop with the crying emojis, she’s independent and strong single too

                                      • Riti Aggarwal
                                        Riti Aggarwal  4 days back


                                        • Katelin Bailey
                                          Katelin Bailey  4 days back

                                          when you started crying it broke my heart😥💔

                                          • Marie Hardwick
                                            Marie Hardwick  4 days back

                                            This isn’t important and unrelated but you seem like a Virgo, I still enjoy your videos I just assumed you’re a Virgo

                                            • infinitelyfinite
                                              infinitelyfinite  3 days back

                                              this made me curious and I checked but she's a taurus lol

                                          • Brookesbooks 97
                                            Brookesbooks 97  5 days back

                                            We walk goats in Ohio and those bitches are a pain to walk

                                            • Sunhee On a rainy day
                                              Sunhee On a rainy day  5 days back

                                              1:29 who keeps their shoes on?

                                              • cherry. bomb
                                                cherry. bomb  5 days back

                                                the fact that she used a dollar bill tho to snort up cereal....

                                                • yo gurl ally.
                                                  yo gurl ally.  5 days back

                                                  Ashley you are so incredibly sweet and overall an amazing person. You’re my favorite human being and I haven’t even met you in person so that speaks volumes.

                                                  • hannah
                                                    hannah  6 days back

                                                    11:28 alright it called me out i guess :)

                                                    • Silv
                                                      Silv  6 days back

                                                      How can people be so cruel...!
                                                      Keep up the good work ! 👍👌

                                                      • PatrikVlogs
                                                        PatrikVlogs  6 days back

                                                        Don`t change by any means. Love your personality and everything that comes with it XOXO

                                                        • Kyra Norman
                                                          Kyra Norman  6 days back

                                                          Fuck them kids!!!! You’re perfectly you and I love who you are who cares about what people think about your relationship

                                                          • Jarko Btw
                                                            Jarko Btw  6 days back

                                                            damn she seems so sad, i feel bad..

                                                            • scary spaghet
                                                              scary spaghet  6 days back

                                                              1.5 is enough

                                                              • windvoyager
                                                                windvoyager  7 days back

                                                                Haha annoying voice? Haha I love to hear u talk!! Ur so adorableeee :)

                                                                • Hailey Currie
                                                                  Hailey Currie  7 days back

                                                                  I fcking love you and your videos. you're an amazing human

                                                                  • vmxns
                                                                    vmxns  1 weeks back

                                                                    im the oldest one in my family and you are. the older sister i never had listening to you talk is so therapeutic

                                                                    • sarah alhosani
                                                                      sarah alhosani  1 weeks back

                                                                      damn... i wish we could be friends irl

                                                                      • Ipshita Singh
                                                                        Ipshita Singh  1 weeks back

                                                                        I didn't think Ashley got any hate but damn

                                                                        • Sarah S
                                                                          Sarah S  1 weeks back

                                                                          Why do I think you bought Cinnamon Toast Crunch just for this video?
                                                                          Wait I take this back
                                                                          U love rly do love Cinnamon Toast Crunch

                                                                          • Javell H
                                                                            Javell H  1 weeks back

                                                                            WE STAN

                                                                            • Nayenezgani
                                                                              Nayenezgani  1 weeks back

                                                                              Ok but a lot of these assumptions were so mean like... CHILL PEOPLE

                                                                              • matilda
                                                                                matilda  1 weeks back

                                                                                Wow I really like you

                                                                                • Chin Or
                                                                                  Chin Or  1 weeks back

                                                                                  haha 0:20 ya i can relate...

                                                                                  no one judge me

                                                                                  • Isla Mellis
                                                                                    Isla Mellis  1 weeks back

                                                                                    I’m so sorry about your sister. I’ve been through similar and it’s so so difficult, for the family and of course for her. I would recommend family therapy because it’s clearly really affecting you 💗💗💗

                                                                                    • Petra Turčić
                                                                                      Petra Turčić  1 weeks back

                                                                                      You are literally one in a milion ❤️

                                                                                      • RannPNut
                                                                                        RannPNut  1 weeks back

                                                                                        You guys don't want to hear about my relationship problems.
                                                                                        *grabs a bucket of popcorn, scratches up the entire fucking floor dragging the therapist chair to the computer screen*
                                                                                        ...No, but I want a Post Graduate Life Crisis update❤❤❤
                                                                                        Edit: Aaaaaand I got to the Eating Disorder chat, and wanna make a comment, bump bump bump mah post😅😅
                                                                                        I've struggled with an Eating Disorder for 7 years now, and only until this past may-ish did things really start working out. It took really finding my own path in my treatment, and even ignoring some of the best advice of nutritionists, cuz gosh darn, I can't be more loud and straightforward that just because I'm on the high end side of the healthy BMI does not mean I want to listen to you tell me about how I should count calories and repeat every ED behavior but in a 'healthy' manner and make sure I don't relapse, you hypocritical, self righteous, capitalistic healthcare system.
                                                                                        Anywho, what I'm trying to say is, relapse is very high in Eating Disorders, some of the highest in mental illnesses, and it takes a completely different amount of time for each person to get better. I've seen women who struggle with it for 20 years and get better, 40, and then also 1 or 2.
                                                                                        Point is, as long as your sister is still alive (morbid, but I'm trying to be encouraging) she's a got a shot.
                                                                                        Sending much love, fantastic video, love ya❤❤❤

                                                                                        • Lamley Lawson
                                                                                          Lamley Lawson  1 weeks back

                                                                                          your personality is so delightful! just discovered you, sorry people are so mean #hurtpeopleneedtogototherapyandworkthatishout

                                                                                          • BunBun
                                                                                            BunBun  1 weeks back

                                                                                            hoi if u think a comment is hurtful in any way just think that u know what they don't know what has happened in your life, and I love ur channel so much it has inspired me and has gotten me to get rid of my insecurity about my legs! (okay sorry saying legs in this is really awkward XD)

                                                                                            • Amy L
                                                                                              Amy L  1 weeks back

                                                                                              I love you and thats not an assumption

                                                                                              • Janet Lee
                                                                                                Janet Lee  2 weeks back

                                                                                                i wish i could just hug u in real life girl u been through a lot