ashley’s big sis advice (dating, school, kicking ass)

  • Published: 27 December 2018
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    Grab a cup o tea, a snack, and your favorite pj's and hang out with me (and David) as we answer your most asked advice questions about relationships, breakups, internship, interviews, college, high school, and life in general.

    CHAPTERS (if you wanna skip around)
    DATING - 0:28
    how to tell if a guy likes you - 1:08
    how to get a boyfriend (or girlfriend) - 2:30
    how to get over a breakup - 5:17

    SCHOOL - 7:32
    advice for high schoolers - 7:40
    how to choose the right college - 9:09
    how to choose good college courses - 10:12
    how to stop procrastinating - 10:33
    tips for all nighters - 10:57

    APARTMENTS - 11:34
    how to apartment - 11:46
    how much do you pay for rent in LA - 13:13
    how to make your room look more grown up - 13:32

    how to get an internship - 14:04
    interview tips - 15:33
    how to get and stay motivated - 16:41

    ON ME
    dress: urban outfitters (
    black t-shirt: re/done (
    star choker: en route jewelry (, use code BESTDRESSED for 20% off!)
    pendant necklace: mejuri (
    earrings: mejuri (
    lipstick: buxom plumpline in hush hush (

    F A Q
    what’s your name? ashley
    what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
    how old are you? 20 (born in 1998)
    how tall are you? 5'5"
    what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
    what equipment do you use to film?
    ➭ camera:
    ➭ lens:
    ➭ vlog camera:
    ➭ voiceover mic:
    ➭ on camera mic:
    ➭ editing: final cut pro

    FTC: Not sponsored.

Comments • 1 628

  • Lauryn Stewart
    Lauryn Stewart  10 hours back

    I felt super overwhelmed and depressed and I didn’t enrol and now I’m trying to fix it

    • Veva Young
      Veva Young  1 days back

      was having a hard day and just needed a pal. thanks for motivation speech at the end, it was just what i needed to hear. after all, if i don’t believe in myself, who will???

      • Kitty Vu
        Kitty Vu  1 days back

        Watching this now is just kinda weird

        • Rebekah Fortenberry
          Rebekah Fortenberry  7 days back

          I had to check my playback speed during the intro, thought she was talking at 1.25X

          • no i suck
            no i suck  7 days back

            Hey guys i'm watching at "no texting" part and want to tell u guys a funny story. My bf and i broke up almost 3 months ago after having been dating for like 4 yrs. He was the one who wanted to breakup and i agreed to split up cuz it'd have been toxic if i had kept dating. He said he doesnt want to block each other on social medias and i also agreed to do so cuz both of us dont post anything on those so i thought it'd be alright. Almost 1 month later he blocked me on ig but not facebook cuz it'd be so obvious for me to see if he blocked me on that. Haha i ended up going to the same class as him this year and he asked me (over text) if we are still friends.

            • Enoc Cuadra
              Enoc Cuadra  1 weeks back




              • Greta Is The Best
                Greta Is The Best  1 weeks back

                u got into stanford omg

                • Laura Wyatt
                  Laura Wyatt  1 weeks back

                  You know everything about everything!! ❤️

                  • BTS PAVED THE WAY
                    BTS PAVED THE WAY  2 weeks back

                    David : Love yourself
                    Me: 🎶🎶🎶you've shown me I have reasons I should love myself 🎶🎶🎶


                    • kittyyourock
                      kittyyourock  2 weeks back

                      Is it just me or David looks like Ross from VlogCreations?

                      • rayniee
                        rayniee  2 weeks back

                        5:58 “went to class, went home, and just... BINGED ANIME”

                        why is this me

                        • Mrs. Nobody
                          Mrs. Nobody  2 weeks back

                          You should do a part 2 and include ways to bulk up your resume

                          • Erin Rae
                            Erin Rae  2 weeks back

                            what about still binging anime even if i dont have a relationship... 😐

                            • Maya Bayewitch
                              Maya Bayewitch  2 weeks back

                              I literally have an interview in an hour and this made me feel so much better. Thanks so much, love all your content :)

                              • Susan Peters
                                Susan Peters  2 weeks back

                                so... how do we know if he likes you???

                                • Arianna Reed
                                  Arianna Reed  2 weeks back

                                  he reminds me so much of shane

                                  • Cupcake Sprinkles726
                                    Cupcake Sprinkles726  2 weeks back

                                    Thank you. I AM a big sister going into high school. Qaaaaaaa

                                    • Šemsudin Dino Poplava
                                      Šemsudin Dino Poplava  2 weeks back

                                      Watching this after they allegedly broke up. When they talked about break ups my heart felt things😭💔

                                    • Fenna van Wijngaarden
                                      Fenna van Wijngaarden  2 weeks back

                                      i want to marry you guys. like as a couple. how fun

                                      • Cute Socks
                                        Cute Socks  2 weeks back

                                        "Say loa vee"

                                        • Josie Is An Otaku
                                          Josie Is An Otaku  2 weeks back

                                          I have dated two guys so far, and I I broke up with the first one and the second one broke up with me. I thought it would be super awkward because we were (and still are) friends, but we all still care about each other and can hangout without any awkwardness

                                          • Keaton O'Rourke
                                            Keaton O'Rourke  2 weeks back

                                            I was always sad I didn’t have a big sis. Yet here ur 🖤💛🖤💛

                                            PS can you plz do a video on how to not to look gross for school when you have limited time in the morning?

                                            • Miel Schaefer
                                              Miel Schaefer  3 weeks back

                                              Your the big sis I never had. Tysm

                                              • Emma Taylor
                                                Emma Taylor  3 weeks back

                                                she is the sister I wish I had...

                                                • Eden Castellanos
                                                  Eden Castellanos  3 weeks back

                                                  I LOOOVE your like little “ted talks” 😂

                                                  • Harry Potato
                                                    Harry Potato  3 weeks back

                                                    I 'dated' my best friend for 4 months. It was a confusing time for us. I had just realised I was trans so I was more focused on that. We never went on a date and didn't do anything. We had misinterpreted our feelings due to others projecting their views on to our friendship. I did end it over text but we discussed it in person a week later and she's still one of my closest friends.

                                                    • Rafaela Marta
                                                      Rafaela Marta  3 weeks back

                                                      You are the big sis that i never had. My "big sis" is way more inmature than me so i have to be that big sister :(

                                                      • tostadongtinapay
                                                        tostadongtinapay  3 weeks back

                                                        i completely agree with the thing you said about choosing which school is right for you! i was supposed to transfer school for my senior high, and i was already registered when i made the last minute decision to transfer to my dream school! my parents were cool with it, and weeks later, i cancelled my enrollment for the school i was supposed to go to & now i'm happily studying here in my dream school :D

                                                        • Ivy ‘Hatch
                                                          Ivy ‘Hatch  3 weeks back

                                                          David: calm* earthquake!

                                                          Ashley: *dances awkwardly*

                                                          • Sus Elizalde
                                                            Sus Elizalde  3 weeks back

                                                            4:56 advice that hit home

                                                            • Leopard
                                                              Leopard  3 weeks back

                                                              Omg they said earthquake as I was shakily walking to the back of my attic with the laptop in one hand trying to balance on all the crap up here lol

                                                              • Grace Kim
                                                                Grace Kim  3 weeks back

                                                                "And just binged anime" 😂😂😂

                                                                • Kassandra Harrison
                                                                  Kassandra Harrison  3 weeks back

                                                                  can u do a jewelry collection video?

                                                                  • Nina Lu
                                                                    Nina Lu  3 weeks back

                                                                    I needed this more than I thought

                                                                    • Rielyn Maceda
                                                                      Rielyn Maceda  3 weeks back

                                                                      Wohooom been able to watch all of your videos 😊😊😊 i just bingewatch your vlogs than netflix 😅😅😅

                                                                      • Olivia _ah23
                                                                        Olivia _ah23  3 weeks back

                                                                        I'm from MD toooo!!!!!!!!

                                                                        • Ely Lozada
                                                                          Ely Lozada  3 weeks back

                                                                          Excited for when this vid gets captions!

                                                                          • Xalis
                                                                            Xalis  3 weeks back

                                                                            Imma be honest, my first relationship was literally the same before we were dating lolll like it was just flirty friends and we didn’t even kiss even after we dated for like a year (we were both 15), and we barely talked during the summer. At that point it was just saying we were dating but we were just friends haha

                                                                            • Lourie Joy Nerpio
                                                                              Lourie Joy Nerpio  3 weeks back

                                                                              I just found a new mom and dad

                                                                              • Bonkers And Bookish
                                                                                Bonkers And Bookish  4 weeks back

                                                                                I had a mutual breakup but the person who broke up with me didn’t know it. Aka) I liked other people but wouldn’t break up with him coz I didn’t want to hurt him but he ended up breaking up with me

                                                                                • Ny's Art
                                                                                  Ny's Art  4 weeks back

                                                                                  Some people say to pretend your in a movie when you feel unmotivated

                                                                                  • Isabella Mask
                                                                                    Isabella Mask  4 weeks back

                                                                                    I get my giant nerd boyfriend vibes from them, anyone else?

                                                                                    • Isabella Craft
                                                                                      Isabella Craft  4 weeks back

                                                                                      WE NEED MORE AMAZING ADVICE VIDEOS 💕

                                                                                      • Egle Duchinaite
                                                                                        Egle Duchinaite  4 weeks back

                                                                                        Please be my older sister

                                                                                        • Maya Gold
                                                                                          Maya Gold  4 weeks back

                                                                                          Ashley is the big sister I never knew I needed

                                                                                          • Ivy Nickles
                                                                                            Ivy Nickles  4 weeks back

                                                                                            Getting into school isn’t nearly as hard as getting a scholarship

                                                                                            • Nisha Zaman
                                                                                              Nisha Zaman  4 weeks back

                                                                                              I love your content !! especially the advice you gave about interview when you tell about yourself to keep talking and paint a picture of yourself :)

                                                                                              • Olivia Thomas
                                                                                                Olivia Thomas  4 weeks back