a big fat post-grad existential crisis™

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  • Published: 30 May 2019
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    Me overthinking my entire life and having a post grad quarter life existential for a spicy 8 minutes straight.

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Comments • 6 069

  • honeyluv uwu
    honeyluv uwu  1 days back

    I would absolutely love it if you made more of these videos or you made podcasts. No pressure tho I'd watch any video♡

    • stainthegemini
      stainthegemini  1 days back

      You’re so amazing, I’m jealous 😂❤️

      • LINH
        LINH  2 days back

        this physically hurts

        • Daisy's Days
          Daisy's Days  3 days back

          Hahahahaha I love this video I just graduated and this is SPOT ON how I feel oh my god thank god im not alone

          • Rachel Pemberton
            Rachel Pemberton  4 days back

            i know this is a few months late and you prob won't see this, but please do more videos like this ashley! i really enjoy hearing the inner workings of your mind and deeper thinking than your normal videos! this is definitely my fav video of yours! :) <3

            • V VIP
              V VIP  4 days back

              I could already see this video heading down the TOK path ...

              • Tallath Afshan
                Tallath Afshan  5 days back

                Holy shit!! That hit hard! Damn girl

                • Nat
                  Nat  5 days back

                  I have existencial crisis and haven't even graduated XD

                  • Spencer House
                    Spencer House  6 days back

                    this is exactly how i have been feeling lately going into my last year of uni. and im so glad you could explain it so well in order for me to relate to.

                    • unicorn queen xoxo smile

                      It was so refreshing to see a Youtuber sit down and just talk, without any elaborate structure but just genuine thoughts and feelings that affect us all, in little and big ways.

                      • Sarah Davis
                        Sarah Davis  6 days back

                        This video! Girl— from this 30yr…still spot on. 💕

                        • Yumiko Masda
                          Yumiko Masda  6 days back

                          so bloody fucking relatable. i just can't.

                          • catie lee
                            catie lee  7 days back

                            💕

                            • royalcuteness
                              royalcuteness  7 days back

                              I’d love to be a housewife 🥰

                              • matilda
                                matilda  1 weeks back

                                you should write a fictional book

                                • midnight sun
                                  midnight sun  1 weeks back

                                  i’m 17 and currently undergoing an existential crisis. life is weird i guess. 🤷🏻‍♀️ ps. ashley, we’ll get through this 👊🏼🙌🏼 (at least i hope so, so i can have my post-graduation existential crisis too) okay bye

                                  • Santa surprise
                                    Santa surprise  1 weeks back

                                    Wow best video please do some more videos like this one

                                    • anaSamak
                                      anaSamak  1 weeks back

                                      What you are talking about here is the “optimal stopping problem” which is solved by the 37% rule. You can read more about it to help guide when to stop looking, wether its a life partner or a new apartment

                                      • BluezFan91
                                        BluezFan91  1 weeks back

                                        Man I went from looking at what to do in Austin to finding this hidden gem. Can relate to almost everything you said except the workaholic. I’m more of paralysis by over analysis. Or lazy some would call it. :/ Your thoughts about feeling like not existing while editing yourself was pretty interesting. Reminded me of a Black Mirror episode. Being in solitude, constantly looking at yourself, a virtual twin except you have the option to edit out all the things you don’t like about yourself. I can start to see how you might have some strange or surreal feelings.
                                        Anyways, enjoyed your share! I’m not really into fashion but I subscribed anyways. You seem like a very genuine person. Take care!

                                        • Emily Gaudette
                                          Emily Gaudette  1 weeks back

                                          Oml Heart of Darkness is such an intense book. Love that quote

                                          • Pip Girl
                                            Pip Girl  1 weeks back

                                            I had to start seeing a therapist after I graduated. I didn't realize how good it was for me mentally to have a plan while in college. Having my semesters laid out and having small goals and big goals was like a manual for life.

                                            Now that I graduated five years ago and I'm a professional now, I can tell you I am recreating that now. I'm creating small and large goals in my career. I do the same for my relationships (friendships, family, romantic... Etc). You'll figure it out, person who's reading this :)

                                            • Anna W.
                                              Anna W.  2 weeks back

                                              I can relate to anything you say. I don't know if this is good or bad :D Thanks Ashley! Its kind of good to know, that there is somebody else who thinks like I do too! (sry my english is not the best at the moment)

                                              • Jennifer King
                                                Jennifer King  2 weeks back

                                                i really needed to hear this

                                                • Professional Hater
                                                  Professional Hater  2 weeks back

                                                  Intelligent MILF. oof. 😥

                                                  • feb balani
                                                    feb balani  2 weeks back

                                                    You are so relatable! It feels like you just put my thoughts and feelings into words. Like thinking those and feeling those doesn’t make sense most of the times and it’s like people won’t understand but this video is reassuring. Having thoughts about life, how we should live it, who we should live it with, AND BEING SCARED AND STRESSED AND EXCITED SOMETIMES IS NORMAL.

                                                    Keep going,girl! Life has a lot to offer! 😊

                                                    • missdanicag
                                                      missdanicag  2 weeks back

                                                      I really love how articulate you are. Soo hooked up in your story telling skills. Been binge watching your videos this week.

                                                      • Cassandra Loves Richann

                                                        Me: are her earrings *sAfeTy PiNs*?!
                                                        Fashion: yeS.

                                                        • Charlotte Francoise Bell

                                                          i relate to this so much! but i haven't been able to actually explain it properly

                                                          • Grishma Gurung
                                                            Grishma Gurung  2 weeks back

                                                            the fact that ashley kept english subtitles in this 😭😭😭😭 thank u girl

                                                            • Nel Grug
                                                              Nel Grug  2 weeks back

                                                              OMG PLEASE PLEASE START A PODCAST OR DO MORE TALKING VIDEOS I LOVE YOUR SPEAKING MANNER AND THE CONCEPTS IN YOUR MIND

                                                              • Turbo & Toby
                                                                Turbo & Toby  2 weeks back

                                                                "sometimes during the week i feel like i just dont exist" SAME i feel like im dead during the week and i get to live on the weekend, but i always spend it stressed.

                                                                • 오승훈
                                                                  오승훈  2 weeks back

                                                                  At first I thought you were just another babbling ho but you are so deep and wise!
                                                                  I am drunk.

                                                                  • Isabella Dumitrescu
                                                                    Isabella Dumitrescu  2 weeks back

                                                                    Wow this was really helpful!

                                                                    • Kulu Batala
                                                                      Kulu Batala  2 weeks back

                                                                      I came back to this video coz i was working on my speech for english and when she pointed out the fact that she had 1.6 mil subscribers i noticed that she now has 2 million subs and im too proud , i cri😭😭😭🖤

                                                                      • Ahsan
                                                                        Ahsan  2 weeks back

                                                                        Read Sartre's Being & Nothingness, talks a lot about a person's freedom & the suffering it entails.

                                                                        • Alexis Rae Ousley
                                                                          Alexis Rae Ousley  2 weeks back

                                                                          One of my favorite videos. 💜

                                                                          • kurihai
                                                                            kurihai  2 weeks back

                                                                            You are so woke and you are only 21.

                                                                            • Grace Giveans
                                                                              Grace Giveans  2 weeks back

                                                                              Oh my gosh my brain

                                                                              • Breadsticks
                                                                                Breadsticks  2 weeks back

                                                                                sounds like ya need a break, hun

                                                                                • Grimm Book
                                                                                  Grimm Book  2 weeks back

                                                                                  1.6 mil? so you gained .4 mil in 3 months? damn

                                                                                  • Caroline Mauduitte
                                                                                    Caroline Mauduitte  2 weeks back

                                                                                    totally ignoring the depth of your video to say that i love your safety pin earrings

                                                                                    • Jennifer Xing
                                                                                      Jennifer Xing  2 weeks back

                                                                                      i felt like this way too actually when I took a year off before college. Back then I was stressed about going to college and keeping an impossible grade (I took the IB diploma which is pretty much death by choice) i straight up just wanted a break. But then i quickly realized i had the same crisis. I've spent all my life being taught by my teachers and my parents (i have asian parents) that the only way to achieve something worth being proud is to work my butt off until i've reach the finish line. And the absolute craziest thing was when i have finally crossed that finish line i some how wanted to be stressed again??? So of corse i got myself a JOB... and funny thing i ended up learning something that i'd never thought i'd learn through this whole year which is actually enjoying my GOD DAMN life. Enjoying the company's of others and being able to work on myself as a person. I got a job and the and I thought u had to have a goal in ur work space but really u don't. it's a place where u do something u enjoy and feel comfortable with, in the company of others who share the same interest as you. You get challenged by new things and gain new experiences that is impossible to get in a school or internship, because for the first time u are actually get treated like an adult and respected as one too, none of that (i expect u to be more like an adult but yet i will still proceed to treat you like a kid bullshit...) ON TOP OF TTHAAAT, what i've realized is work is only done at working hours and when work is finished u get a personal life (shocker am i right). but at school u go to class and theres hw, projects, presentations, exams to prepare, and the sacrifice of personal life. but work is completely different . And since I had money and extra time i got to go out with my friends, hang out with my bf, take my parents out, see my relatives and work on myself as a person. it really showed me a different view of what it's like to be an adult. It's not to have a constant goal that sacrifices my personal life or being stressed about achieving a stupid piece of paper. It's actually about enjoying life as it is. thats probably just me but i hope this helps and i hope u find your way soon :)

                                                                                      • Emily Lu
                                                                                        Emily Lu  2 weeks back

                                                                                        Give me more of this content PLEASE

                                                                                        • Nikki L
                                                                                          Nikki L  2 weeks back

                                                                                          Hi I am new to your channel, and I just want to let you know that, yes, life is weird. Everybody feels the same, lonely and weird, and that is why we are not alone.

                                                                                          • Rafaela Marta
                                                                                            Rafaela Marta  2 weeks back

                                                                                            Im so into the "dying" milestone

                                                                                            • Kirsten M
                                                                                              Kirsten M  2 weeks back

                                                                                              I've been binge watching your videos for a week after getting my wisdom teeth out and being forced to lie down like a big blob. I'm 30, and it's taken me until very recently to understand some of the points you made in this video. You are far wiser than most people my age. I am surrounded by people who are obsessed with Kmart, babies and their jobs. In the wise words of Stacy Orrico, THERE'S GOTTA BE MORE TO LIIIII-HIIIIIIFE. Anyway. Hi. You're great. A+ all round.

                                                                                              • Natasha Tabbush
                                                                                                Natasha Tabbush  2 weeks back

                                                                                                can this genius write a book already

                                                                                                • Paris Little
                                                                                                  Paris Little  2 weeks back

                                                                                                  Such a good video! You're so good at rambling I love it